How to Talk to Your Kids about Pornography

Book excerpt: Never before has it been so easy to talk with your children or teens about tough topics. Whether they are 6 or 18, you will have worthwhile, relevant discussions that help protect and prepare your kids! Because exposure to pornography is inevitable, it's become necessary to prepare our kids for that exposure. Porn's addictive nature, the way it can alter a child's developing brain, and how it will affect all of their future relationships make this discussion not only important, but vital to a child's healthy sexual development. Pornography use among kids is now a major public health issue due to its far-reaching effects. We have provided critical information and great discussion questions that will foster productive and meaningful conversations between you and your kids. Look at these discussions as an opportunity to grow closer. As you become more comfortable and gain confidence in discussing these tough topics, your kids will be able to ask you deeper questions and share more personal thoughts and experiences with you. You will find that if you can discuss the dangers of online pornography and the related topics in this book, you can talk with your kids about ANYTHING!This book will also help you determine the particular needs for your home, whether it's clearer standards and guidelines, more monitoring, or more trust and connection. Cultivating a deep connection with our kids is one of the best addiction prevention tools we have. Use these conversations to foster meaningful connection with your kids and help establish your own role as their parent--someone they can trust, someone they can talk to, and someone who will protect them.This book is meant to educate you, the parent, as well as your child or teenager about the dangers of pornography. He should see you as the best and most reliable source of information. You care about your child more than anyone. Trust yourself and take the time to prepare them for their inevitable experience with porn.